Weâ€™ve probably all found ourselves humming along towards the words from Julia Michaelsâ€™ song â€œIssuesâ€ last summer time. On it, she sings, â€œIâ€™m jealous, Iâ€™m overzealous. Whenever Iâ€™m down, we have really down. We have mad, infant, believe me. I really could love you the same as that. And I also could make you just this fast.â€
As catchy and popular since this track became, the sort of relationship it defines is certainly one centered on ontrol and power in the place of equality and respect . But, so what does it suggest to own a relationship that is equal? Equality in a relationship implies that each personâ€™s passions and desires are respected and met to a degree that is reasonable in opposition to just one single partnerâ€™s requires dominating the connection. Inequality in a relationship means an instability of power between lovers. In a unhealthy relationship one partner â€œ keeps energy and control of the other .â€ Should your partnerâ€™s requires dominate the partnership with very little consideration on your own then your relationship is unequal.